That night, i was just wondering “the
type of lady lucy was”, ” what gave her
the zeal and courage to advent me” and
moreover, “what she came to do in that
boutique as she didn’t purchased a pin
“I will find out” i said to myself.
Ayomide came to my house that
weekend, we both catch fun, having
couple of s-x was to keep me out of
reach of those tooth picks legged girls
for months. While we are eating, i gisted
her about all that happened at the
boutique, she was just smiling when i
“So you’ve find a lady at the boutique
now, i know you will now be going to
that boutique now to look for her in the
name of buying clothes for me” she said
with a smiling face.
I laughed, “haba, baby so you did not
trust me again” i replied on the double.
“I know you would not even try it” she
concluded. We both smile.
One problem I’ve been having with
Ayomide is her non appreciative
character, “is it that she doesn’t know
how to say simple ‘thank you’ or she
doesn’t want to say it”, that was same
thing that kept on running in my head
anytime i bought her something. I
wondered how on earth she cannot
just show appreciation whenever i
bought something for her no matter
how expensive it is. I’ve took it upon
myself to always correct her just
because i so much loved her but it’s
seriously getting out of her as she
wouldn’t just adhere to what i corrected
her for. This thing got me worried, I’ve
been loosing patient little by little, that
very day, i wasn’t happy with her at all.
“Baby won’t you at least say thank you”
i corrected her with a great dismay.
“You’ve come with your problem again”
was the word she altered.
“You complained too much” she
I couldn’t bear the anger in me at that
particular moment, though i wasn’t
ready to quarrel her.
“But how long will i continue to be
“Can’t she just take to correction”
“I guess she’s not ready to change”
i was just deducing to myself.
From that moment, she was not in
mood anymore, neither am i
“Is it a crime to correct someone i
loved” i asked myself
“Certainly not” i concluded
She could feel how disappointed i was
but i guess she wasn’t care. I know she
wouldn’t apologized, “that’s another
problem am facing with her”.
When will Ayomide learn how to
appreciate a little thing and at the same
time apologized whenever she’s at fault.
These two things are the problem I’m
facing in my lovely relationship, i still
hope i will be able to correct it with
patients and endurance just because of
the love i have for her. For how long will
i continue to have patience is a question
i still can’t answer but i kept on asking
As time goes on, these two altitude of
her’s are the only problem drawing line
between Ayomide and i.
“Even if i was able to cope with her non
appreciative altitude, i don’t think i can
ever bear her non ability to apologized
whenever she wrongs me, never.” I was
at home thinking of all this things after
the third day she left my house back to
school, i picked up my phone and called
lucy. It was as if she know something is
wrong with me, her consoling words
brought me back to life from the land of
icky melancholy. I couldn’t bear it but to
laughed to her cracked jokes,
“what an Angel you are” i said
“And why did you said so” she asked
“Never mind” i replied with a heart full
We talked for about fifteen minutes
before she went off, i knew i needed a
companion to quench my oxidizing
heart and Lucy just happened to fit in
the picture. I did not know if what i was
doing what right or wrong at that
moment but one thing i believed was,
“anything you doing that makes you
happy, keep it”
TO BE CONTINUED…